People across the globe hoped that 2021 would bring an end to the Covid-19 pandemic. Not only did it not end, but we’re bracing as the omicron variant makes its way rapidly across the world.  Depending on where you live, there’s ever-changing guidelines on masking and vaccine mandates, working from home requirements, and remote learning. Just when we think that we’ll return to “normal”, we’re left with the stark realization that we don’t know what normal is anymore.  

Only recently has the topic of mental health started coming up. Whether we realize it or not, this pandemic has taken a huge toll on our mental health, possibly in ways we don’t understand yet. It has placed a huge burden on our already taxed healthcare system. Both adults and children are struggling to get through their day-to-day. Will my workplace shut down again? Will kids be sent home from school to resume remote learning? Have we been exposed to Covid-19 because someone unknowingly brought it into our home or workplace? The questions never end, and with questions come concern and worry about things we can’t control.

If you’re a person who has struggled with your mental health at any time during this pandemic, you’re not alone. As I write this, I think of all the challenges that I’ve had this year – and while everyone’s story is different, each is important. I’m fortunate to work in a place that supports employee mental health and well-being. If you’re anything like me, I’m not the type of person to work from home for an extended time, away from daily interaction with team members and co-workers, clients, etc. I can prioritize my time, but it’s too easy for me to throw in a load of laundry or get up and check what’s in the refrigerator (again). When we first started with lockdowns in 2020, working from home was fun for about the first week, but then I’d had enough. I found myself not stopping at the end of the day, not taking breaks to stretch or even go outside. In fact, I didn’t leave my house - and neither did my husband who also worked from home. My son was sent home from college for his first year to resume his learning online. My daughter was considered an “essential worker”, so she was the only one who could really come and go. That in itself was nerve-wracking!

I knew I was struggling – mostly with all the unknowns of never having been through a pandemic, and the unknown of how long we were going to have to live like this. And then after the first month, I knew I was in trouble. I was frustrated and crying at the drop of a hat; my interactions with some of my co-workers were strained; my brain was muddled with trying to  understanding Covid and how it was affecting my daily work; and change was happening all around me and I couldn’t stop it; I didn’t like it. I needed help, but I didn’t recognize that I needed help. Maybe you’ve felt that way, too?

Working from home lasted about a month and a half, and when I finally returned to the office, I was so happy to be back. But during the time I was away, I noticed that not only had I changed, but other people had changed, too. Even though we were excited to see each other, no one wanted to get too close. We had to wear our masks when we left our cubes or walked into any of the common areas. We stopped meeting in person and continued our team meetings via Zoom. “Lunch and Learns” stopped. We even moved cubes to make sure that everyone was spread out at least six feet or more. The hand sanitizer and wipes were plentiful, too!

We thought we’d be done with this by the end of 2020, but what really happened is we refined our Covid processes and became better at functioning through the day-to-day, but we didn’t necessarily improve our mental health, or our ways of handling the stresses that have come along as a result of a pandemic that doesn’t seem to end. We are still isolated in many ways, working remotely instead of in-person. We are trying to figure out ways we can get back to a normal office setting – pre-Covid. Many people are afraid to come back to the office, afraid of being exposed to Covid, either directly or indirectly. Each day is a challenge in one way or another.

So, what do you do when you’re the one having trouble rolling with the changes and the challenges and you feel like your mental health is suffering? You make sure to reach out and ask for help. According to SHRM in their article “Creating a Mental Health-Friendly Workplace”, you want to make sure that your company is building a workplace that will support you and your mental health through:

•       Awareness – Build an awareness and a supportive culture;

•       Accommodations – Provide accommodations to employees;

•       Assistance – Offer your employees assistance; and

•       Access – Make sure there is access to treatment.

It’s not always easy to tell anyone (especially management) that you’re struggling. I know that firsthand. But it is comforting to know that there’s help. I encourage you to be empathetic to what your employees are feeling. Maybe they need time off, or a lighter workload. Or, if their job function allows it, maybe they can work remotely. Maybe they prefer to come back to the office. Whatever it is, take the time to create and foster open lines of communication. Don’t ignore it or make them think they can’t handle their workload and take it away from them. That only adds to the stress. Look to the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) to understand what accommodations are available to employees.

As a business, you can also offer an Employee Assistance Program (EAP). An EAP encompasses a wide range of services, such as:

•       Immediate connection to mental health professionals;

•       Counseling referrals;

•       Virtual concierge services featuring personal assistants available to conduct research, coordinate events, or provide referrals;

•       Financial and legal consultations;

•       Child/eldercare resources;

•       Individualized wellness resources including wellness coaching;

•       Health advocacy resources including claims and appeals management, healthcare billing assistance, prescription information, and provider research;

•       Online access to work/life, wellness, and health advocacy resources via a personalized web portal; and

•       Available to the employee and their eligible family members.

We offer an EAP called Sim“Co-Pilot”. It is strictly confidential and is designed to safeguard an employee’s privacy and rights. Information given to a Sim“Co-Pilot” counselor may be released to your company only if requested by the employee in writing. All counselors are guided by a professional code of ethics.

Personal information concerning employee participation in this program is maintained in a confidential manner. No information related to an employee’s participation in the program is entered into the employee’s personnel file.

During times like these, it’s important to make sure that your employees have access to as many options as possible. Be sure to check your call your health insurance provider to find out your options with regard to mental health counseling. Speak to your primary care physician, and look into paid leaves such as Paid Family Leave (PFL) and the Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA), or a personal leave of absence.

Don’t wait to talk to someone! You have many resources at your disposal. Covid-19 has turned the world upside down and we’re all trying in one way or another to get back on track. Some need more help than others. Offer whatever help you can. Be kind and understanding. Don’t assume you know what others are going through. Some may choose not to share, but don’t give up. There’s value in helping each other to get through this, so call us because we’re here to help!

Please check out the following resources for additional information:

•       Creating a Mental Health-Friendly Workplace by SHRM

•       How the Pandemic Is Changing Mental Health by Scientific American

•       Coping With Loss — One Step at a Time by AARP

•       The Implications of COVID-19 for Mental Health and Substance Use by Kaiser Family Foundation

•       Conversations Matter Right Now by the Centers for Disease Control